This surprised tuesday night, spent with my friends and a lot of laughs. We went to Kuta Beach Walk again *this time at night ;) . We're kinda relax that day, so our outfit is simple and comfy. I actually planned to wear my old dress, but suddenly my package from GOWIGASA just arrived, so I changed into my new little white dress immediately ^o^.
Here's the details of our outfit of the day:
Cary : DOTTI BLACK TANKTOP GAUDI HIGH-WAISTED JEANS GOWIGASA BROWN BAG MCQUEEN SCARF CROCS PUMP SHOES
Vivi: DOROTHY PERKINS BLUE DRESS CROCS LEOPARD AVENUE TOTE BAG YOBEL SILVER NECKLACE
Bee : GOWIGASA LWD CHARLES & KEITH WEDGES LONGCHAMP BAG GOLD BANGLE UNBBRANNED OWL NECKLACE
It’s
getting closer to my big day. OMG! I’m so nervous and excited at the same
time.
I
was actually in the middle of writing my vows when I had this thought. My
fiancée and I been dating for 5 years and a half now, we’ve been in a long
distance relationship for most of that time but yet here we are still together
and about to get married. My friends asking me, how did you manage your
relationship? Well, the most common answers to this question will be trust,
communication, understanding, honesty, love and faith. I’m here not to give
that answers. All of those things are essential in EVERY relationship, not only
for lover, but for parents, friends, even work as well.
The
truth is relationship aren’t perfect, none of the things are. You can’t expect
rainbows and butterflies everyday. There will be disagreement, disappointment,
and things aren’t always goes according to what you thought it would be. You
both are two different personalities, two different gender, two different
brains, two different background, you’re just different to one another. You
can’t always agree to your sibling let alone to stranger who just walk into
your life trying to tell you things. Most of relationship failed because
they’re not prepared for this.
Dating is so much fun when you were young. You
get to hold hands, eating ice cream from one bowl, getting chocolate and
flowers on Valentines day, stay up all night talking on the phone, and got to laugh at each other jokes. But when you get older, things got complicated there
will be family drama, money and status drama and so much more that sometimes it’s
better to be alone. I’m not trying to be the expert here and the truth is I’m
not a good girlfriend/fiancée.
Relationship
is a commitment. How excited you were when you get a job that you really
wanted. But after a few months doing it, reality strikes in and you starts to
hate it. But if you committed to those work, even though you hate your boss or
your co-worker so much you’ll stay and do the job right. That’s relationship.
Love
is a choice. Falling in love is an emotion that sometimes we can’t control but
how do we manage to stay in love after such a long time? Love tend to
wears out, after years and years of dating being together isn’t as fun as it
used to. Getting to the movies start to become a boring date. And you didn’t
talk to one another that often anymore. You used to laugh about anything, and at each other's stupidity but after times you got mad at all of those things. At this point, people either break up,
cheat on their partner and found other excitement or CHOOSE to stay be in love.
When we started to like someone we decide to either chase him/her, or do
nothing about it. That’s the same decision that you have to choose to stay in a
relationship or walk away. Walk away is an easy option, but guarantee you’ll
face the same problem even with someone’s new.
There
are NO perfect relationship, and trust me those happy lovely dovey couple that
you saw and get jealous of aren’t always smile and wrap around each other all
the time.
So
before I start my new life as a wife, I made this decision. I will stay in
love...
PS.
I remembered back in 2010, I was still in Perth and earlier on that day I’m
having an argument with my fiancée. This song comes up in the radio and its
just spokes to me. I’m gonna share it to all of you coz for me this song is
relatable to everyone. Enjoy :)
