This surprised tuesday night, spent with my friends and a lot of laughs. We went to Kuta Beach Walk again *this time at night ;) . We're kinda relax that day, so our outfit is simple and comfy. I actually planned to wear my old dress, but suddenly my package from GOWIGASA just arrived, so I changed into my new little white dress immediately ^o^.
Here's the details of our outfit of the day:
Cary : DOTTI BLACK TANKTOP GAUDI HIGH-WAISTED JEANS GOWIGASA BROWN BAG MCQUEEN SCARF CROCS PUMP SHOES
Vivi: DOROTHY PERKINS BLUE DRESS CROCS LEOPARD AVENUE TOTE BAG YOBEL SILVER NECKLACE
Bee : GOWIGASA LWD CHARLES & KEITH WEDGES LONGCHAMP BAG GOLD BANGLE UNBBRANNED OWL NECKLACE
It’s
getting closer to my big day. OMG! I’m so nervous and excited at the same
time.
I
was actually in the middle of writing my vows when I had this thought. My
fiancée and I been dating for 5 years and a half now, we’ve been in a long
distance relationship for most of that time but yet here we are still together
and about to get married. My friends asking me, how did you manage your
relationship? Well, the most common answers to this question will be trust,
communication, understanding, honesty, love and faith. I’m here not to give
that answers. All of those things are essential in EVERY relationship, not only
for lover, but for parents, friends, even work as well.
The
truth is relationship aren’t perfect, none of the things are. You can’t expect
rainbows and butterflies everyday. There will be disagreement, disappointment,
and things aren’t always goes according to what you thought it would be. You
both are two different personalities, two different gender, two different
brains, two different background, you’re just different to one another. You
can’t always agree to your sibling let alone to stranger who just walk into
your life trying to tell you things. Most of relationship failed because
they’re not prepared for this.
Dating is so much fun when you were young. You
get to hold hands, eating ice cream from one bowl, getting chocolate and
flowers on Valentines day, stay up all night talking on the phone, and got to laugh at each other jokes. But when you get older, things got complicated there
will be family drama, money and status drama and so much more that sometimes it’s
better to be alone. I’m not trying to be the expert here and the truth is I’m
not a good girlfriend/fiancée.
Relationship
is a commitment. How excited you were when you get a job that you really
wanted. But after a few months doing it, reality strikes in and you starts to
hate it. But if you committed to those work, even though you hate your boss or
your co-worker so much you’ll stay and do the job right. That’s relationship.
Love
is a choice. Falling in love is an emotion that sometimes we can’t control but
how do we manage to stay in love after such a long time? Love tend to
wears out, after years and years of dating being together isn’t as fun as it
used to. Getting to the movies start to become a boring date. And you didn’t
talk to one another that often anymore. You used to laugh about anything, and at each other's stupidity but after times you got mad at all of those things. At this point, people either break up,
cheat on their partner and found other excitement or CHOOSE to stay be in love.
When we started to like someone we decide to either chase him/her, or do
nothing about it. That’s the same decision that you have to choose to stay in a
relationship or walk away. Walk away is an easy option, but guarantee you’ll
face the same problem even with someone’s new.
There
are NO perfect relationship, and trust me those happy lovely dovey couple that
you saw and get jealous of aren’t always smile and wrap around each other all
the time.
So
before I start my new life as a wife, I made this decision. I will stay in
love...
PS.
I remembered back in 2010, I was still in Perth and earlier on that day I’m
having an argument with my fiancée. This song comes up in the radio and its
just spokes to me. I’m gonna share it to all of you coz for me this song is
relatable to everyone. Enjoy :)
I’ve had an awesomely busy and stressful weeks last month.
I’m getting married in one month time! (eeehhkk!) so I have to make sure that everything will be ready then, scrolling through some to-do lists, guest lists, pre-wedding photos, etc. I’m a
control freak and a perfectionist so everything HAVE to be exactly like I
wanted otherwise I’m having a mental breakdown *LOL. Anyway, the other
thing that keep me busy lately is a new family business, so let me introduce you to ...
NOAH!
Not to be confuse with the Prophet,
even though we were inspired by him.
It is a Bridal Villa and Chapel here
in Bali! We provide a venue for Holy Matrimony, Wedding Receptions, Dinner and other Functions.
Why a chapel? Why Noah? Why a boat?Why?
Ok, easy now.. We get it, there LOTS
of wedding Chapels especially in Bali so opening a brand new Chapel might sound –you-won’t-got-any-chance-against-the-others- but when you ask why? we
say, why not! We still see chances in Wedding industry especially in Bali.
What’s the deal with Noah and his
boat? It’s an ARK not a boat! Coco Chanel once said,“In order to be irreplaceable, one must always be Different”, that’s what we are trying to offer. Remember even in the bible people called Noah's crazy, you might think we’re crazy but we want something unique, something
memorable, and something different. But why Noah? I don’t want to preach or
sound too religious or anything, but my dad likes the story of Noah. Is about faith, hope, love and salvation. In the
world where divorce is as easy as snapping your finger, we still believe a long
lasting happy marriage do exist.
Without much more talking writing, I present you Noah Bridal Villa and Chapel. Let the picture do the rest.
Noah Chapel
Beautiful Sunrise @ Noah Villa - You can see sunset too ^^
sunset
Inside the Chapel
Our Koi Fish Pond - We use a new watering system that keep the water clear and look pretty :)
say goodbye to a yucky greeny pond. No Chemical 100% SAFE!
Viv and Bee visited me on the Noah's Open House 21.4.12 (thanks for your support girls)
Oh by the way, I had my pre-wedding photo
shoot 2 weeks ago. Here’s a teaser of my pre-wedding session, taken at Noah. Beautiful photographs by NOMINA
More pictures coming soon :)
Anyway, we offer up 30% discount for
booking ‘til July 2012 as our opening promo. Doesn’t matter you’re getting
married now or next year. Make a booking today, you’ll get the discount!
Excited right?
Yes, I’m gonna get married here next month. LOL! I’m gonna share the pictures then, promise.
So, what do you think? :)
For booking and enquiries you can
contact me:
cary.sumau@gmail.com
Don’t forget to like our facebook
page NOAH CHAPEL
Oh, I miss blogging so much!! >.< Me, Cary and Vivi was so busy *always* , Cary was preparing her New Bridal Villa, Vivi just came back from Dubai. What?? Yes! She just came back from Dubai!! She went there twice btw, I'm so envy with her trip :( Don't worry, I will force them to share their wonderful activties soon ^o^. While they so busy with their cool activities, I still busy with my work, because i travel a lot this year (still in indo), so i have to payback hahaaa *workaholic*!
Well, not really that workaholic, actually i spent my time with 'Running Man' and 'Dream High 2' too :p Btw, we still have Girls Night Out in the end of March and decided to have fun karaoke at Happy Puppy ^^ It's not our first time 'sing together' moment, here's last year sneak peek lol Last year we went to NAV.
*shy*
blur...
proof we're Indo people *took a pic at....*
i share this 2011 pic because it means a lot to me, we start become best friends >.<
no more ja-im :D
Back to the main, here's our 2012 first 'happup!
still calm??
cool
cary and vivi took a pic while i was singing alone *ahemm*
they smile again to the cams lol
c'mon everybody!
i'm Genie for your wish! (^o^)~~(^o^)~
me ^^
inspired by GG's hands ;p
cute pose lol
self camera everywhere ;)
start going wild !
Moves like Jagger!!
we were standing on sofa, singing, jumping, dancing
(^o^)~~(^o^)~
*of course no our dancing pics, it's so embarrasing* hahah!
but suddenly the Mas2 HappPup knock once and just get in OMG!!!
We're screaming each other, and try to sit nicely oh my....oh my....LOL
He just want to told us the time's almost over, and said "Gpp mbak, lanjutin aja lagi" :)
Even we're so shy, after he gone, we're continued our 'crazy moves' yeah!!